Here is a conversation that I had with my mother a few months before my wedding:
ME: I was hoping that towards the end of the reception I could change out of my gown and into your reception dress. Would that be okay with you?
MOM: My reception dress?
ME: Yeah, I thought it would be really fun and meaningful.
MOM: (Doubtfully.) Oh... okay.
ME: Would that be alright with you?
MOM: I suppose so. It's just that...
MOM: What would I change into then?
ME: (Sighing.) No, Mom, I don't want to wear the dress you're wearing to my wedding. I want to wear the dress you wore at your wedding.